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Shalom’s
Everyday Hero
I was reading recently about one of Time Magazine’s heroes
of 2007, Wesley Autrey. On a cold January day, Wesley jumped onto New York City
subway tracks to rescue a young man having a seizure. After pushing him to safety
and lying on top of him to shield him from oncoming trains, the young man said
to Autrey, “Sir, I don’t know you and you don’t know me, but
please don’t move.”1
Our world needs heroes, especially here in Guatemala, where there
seems to be a deficit of role models and examples for the culture to follow.
Not only do we need people like Wesley Autrey, who are made famous for one heroic
act, but we also need individuals who, on a daily basis, serve as heroes for
others to follow. When I think of these daily, often unrewarded heroes, I can’t
help but remember one of our directors at Shalom Baptist School, Mercedes Franco.
Like many in her generation, Mercedes married young…at the
age of 13, to be exact. She had two children and nice life before her husband
died of bone cancer. She persevered, however, as a single mother, raising her
children and finishing her education.
Five
years later, she fell in love and married another man, and they began to expand
their family. As the years passed, it became clear that Mercedes’ husband
was not at all what he seemed from the beginning. He would be gone for extended
periods of time, only to return asking for more money. This was a stressful
time for Mercedes as she took care of her five children, put up with her absentee
husband, and worked as a professional chef.
As Mercedes was baking six cakes for a wedding with one of her
daughters, Blanca, there was a gas explosion in the kitchen. This left Mercedes
and Blanca with second degree burns over much of their bodies. They spent 15
days in the hospital and it took almost a year for their skin to heal and hair
to grow back. Unfortunately, this experience was only preparation for the storms
to come.
Almost a year to the day after the kitchen explosion, Mercedes
was diagnosed with cervical cancer on a Thursday. On the following Monday, the
day she was to begin her chemotherapy, her husband left her for good. Broken
emotionally and physically, Mercedes began to walk a difficult road, with only
God to depend upon. “My relationship with God is the most vital thing
in my life,” Mercedes explained, “He has never let me down and has
taught me great humility and the importance of prayer.”
As Mercedes was on the road to recovery, God led her to Shalom
Baptist School, where she has been a director since its opening. “Shalom
was a second opportunity for my life,” said Mercedes, “a chance
to begin again.” Slowly and quietly, not only did Mercedes recover from
cancer, but over the years, she has become a hero of faith and perseverance
to countless students and parents.
When parents come to the school in a financial or health crisis,
when single mothers are at the end of their ropes, or when children walk on
campus desperate for a hug or a loving touch, Mercedes is usually there sharing
her story, her faith in God and her compassion. Like the man with the seizure
in New York, Shalom’s families and children asking for something to hold
onto when their lives are too close to the tracks. “This is my work,”
said Mercedes about her role at Shalom, helping our families to be grateful
and to trust in God. Mercedes Franco will probably never be featured in Time
Magazine, but she is a hero nonetheless and a special part of the Shalom family.
1 “Wesley Autrey, A hero declares, ‘We got to show
each other some love,” Time 2007: The Year in Review, January 2008, p.
61.
The Hope of a Generation
You
can find a tragic story of a man named Jephthah in Judges 11 in the Old Testament.
From his birth, it seems like he’s been dealt a bad hand. His father is
a prominent man in the community and his mother is a prostitute. Though he is
the first born to his father, he is never treated this way. To the contrary,
all his step brothers and sisters, born of his father’s wife, have nothing
but contempt for Jephthah (We’ll call him “Jay” for short.).
When the siblings are old enough to exert their power in the family, they kick
him to the curb. Broke and homeless, Jay finds security and comfort in what
the NIV calls a “group of adventurers.” That’s Bible talk
for a gang, and Jay develops his life and fame as a bruiser and a gangster.
Every generation has had its motivations and reasons for adopting
a second family. From a war-time band of brothers to disenfranchised urban teens
choosing a life of thugs, guns and drugs, boys and men over the centuries have
found refuge in family structures outside their own. For years, gangs have been
a strong reality in the communities around Shalom Baptist School. Last school
year, we even had students who enrolled specifically to try and sell drugs or
start gang “cell groups” within our walls. This year, not only have
we encountered the threat of drugs once again, but a new form of robbery and
intimidation. Middle school boys, wanting to prove themselves to gangsters outside
our walls, have become spies, looking out for students with a new cell phone
or book bag. The outside thugs would then receive a call telling them exactly
who to target at the end of the day when school let out. Our school staff has
spent many days walking the streets outside of Shalom trying to ensure the safety
of our students and many hours trying to counsel with these future “Jays.”
Years later, Jay’s hometown is threatened by some neighboring
enemies, and the town fathers turn to Jay for help. The town needed a warrior
and a leader, and they finally broker a deal, giving Jay his birthright and
title as head of the family. Unfortunately, they didn’t give him what
he needed most: reconciliation with his family.
This
year at Shalom Baptist School, we’ve seen a rise of cases of children
and families in desperate need of the reconciliation that only God can offer.
Angry young boys pushing others down the stairs because they feel threatened
and powerless at home. A teenage girl involved in at-risk behavior because she
was separated from her mother who was abusive and an alcoholic. Young girls
showing signs of physical and sexual abuse at the hands of those they were supposed
to trust the most. Because no one supports him at home, a high school student
comes to Shalom with frequent panic attacks. Every week these students and parents
pass through our offices with different stories, explanations and problems,
but always with the same need for reconciliation. So we counsel and pray. We
visit their homes and pray. We pray not only for their present but for their
futures, particularly that they will be able to escape the endless cycle of
violence, abuse and poor decision-making that we encounter every day.
At this point in Jay’s story, we can see this cycle played
out in his life in a most dramatic way. As the new head of the family, Jay begins
to negotiate with their enemies to divert the coming violence. Interestingly,
Jay is well versed in the history of Israel and sounds more like a lawyer or
a diplomat than a street thug. There is no telling how many young men Guatemala
has lost to the streets that had the same kind of potential.
Well, the negotiations break down, Jay prepares for war, and verse
29 says that God’s spirit descends upon him. Here Jay has the opportunity
of a fresh start, yet he seems plagued by his past. He cannot trust the new
anointing that God provided (ensuring a victory), and he begins negotiations
with God, offering the first person to greet him out of his home in exchange
for a certain victory. He has no idea the price he will pay for this arrangement…and
it wasn’t even necessary.
One of the most difficult aspects of the culture here in Guatemala
is the devaluing of education. It is hard to convince parents who never made
it past fourth grade that they need to continue supporting their children until
graduation. Like Jay, many Guatemalan parents are making decisions for the present
that will sacrifice the future of their children. And by the way, that’s
literally what Jay did.
At
the end of chapter 11, we find Jay, the conquering war hero, coming home after
his victory to witness his only daughter coming to greet him singing and dancing.
Ironically, her song is a preamble to her funeral. We also find Jay unwilling
to take responsibility for his decisions, claiming how she has caused him his
misery. For modern readers, it is difficult to get past a father sacrificing
his own child or to accept that God would allow this. But if you can go beyond
this, there is hope to be found in this story.
The hope we find is in the response of the daughter. When she
receives the news of her father’s deal with God, listen to her reply,
“you have given your word to the Lord. Do to me just as you have promised…”1
Listen to the maturity in her answer. Remember that this is the daughter of
Jephthah, the warrior and the thug. She responds with more integrity and faith
than her father ever exhibited. While he couldn’t escape his past, God
took the time to transform his daughter and break the cycle of repeating the
sins of her father. That is also exactly the hope that we trust in every day
at Shalom School.
For every family problem or difficult student we encounter, there
are also a host of good children and youth who are giving their best to God
and Shalom everyday. They are growing in their faith and in their studies. Against
cultural, economic and spiritual odds, these students are thriving and exceeding
far beyond even their parents expectations. They are excelling in academics
in their final months before graduation. They are discovering artistic talents
in their elementary talent workshops. They are singing in our youth praise band
and learning what it means to honor God with their lives. They have dreams of
becoming doctors, computer programmers, pastors, lawyers and business owners.
It is our prayer for this generation of Shalom students that they can rise above
all obstacles to flourish as the future hope of Guatemala.